Attitude is Everything!! How?

By Dr.Raji Arabi

Attitude is Everything!! How?

It’s not a Black Beauty or Fair Pretty

It’s an Attitude which makes you Beautiful!!

It’s not 16,20 or 25 age makes you young

It’s an Attitude which makes you Young!!

It’s not a Zero Size ,Six packs makes you a Celebrity

It’s an Attitude which makes you a Celebrity!!

It’s not a Doctor, Engineer or Carpenter makes you a professional

It’s an Attitude which makes you a Professional!!

It’s not a 5k,50k or 500k salary makes you rich

It’s an Attitude which makes you Rich!!

It’s not a CEO,COO or CXO designation makes you a leader

It’s an Attitude which makes you a Leader!!

It not a 40,50 or 60 age makes you wise

It’s an Attitude which makes you Wise!!

Attitude is Everything!!

What is Attitude?

“Readiness of Psyche to act & react in certain way”- JUNG

It is Mental & Emotional entity that characterizes the person and it is acquired through Experiences.

Component{ABC} Model :

It explains beautifully about Attitude

  • Affective
  • Behavioral
  • Cognitive

Often Attitude projected & concluded with Behaviors.

Cognitive:       

It is a Belief or Thoughts or attributes towards the Object.

E.g: You believed that Boss are always Harsh & Rude towards Employees.

Affective:

It is a feeling of you towards an Object.

E.g: Being afraid of your Boss

Behavioral:

How you behave when you are exposed to that Object.

E.g: You become Anxious, timid ,weak and unable to face him which may results either you are weakest fellow or you are not worth enough.

In this View,

Sometimes you may have only Affective & Behavioral Component. You may not have any specific thoughts or beliefs i.e Cognitive.

If the attitude reflects negatively, you can try to change it!!

Thought become things!!

So carry positive, strong thoughts.

When you have certain Belief, try to evaluate it and find out how this belief affects our Emotions & Behaviors.

Factors which influence Attitude:

  • Environment
  • Social Culture
  • Learning
  • Conditioning
  • Experiences
  • Observation.

Attitude is an evolving one.

An Introvert fellow  become an Extrovert through his experiences & observation.

A talkative Extrovert becomes Silent by adopting Listening  skills.

It may change anytime. It is in our hand to construct it Progressively.

Many Mental & Emotional stigma changes the attitude of a person.

Take care of Mental & Emotional Health to maintain a right Attitude

Reach me at [email protected] for Mental & Emotional Health Management.

Emotions to aware

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